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Faith-Based Islamic Counselling · Online Across Ontario

Bring your whole deen into the room.

Therapy with a Muslim Registered Psychotherapist who already understands why you prayed istikhara before calling, why "just leave" is not advice, and why your relationship with Allah is not a symptom to be managed.

No referral needed · Evenings available · Sessions in English and Urdu

If any of this sounds familiar

You can love your faith and still be struggling. Both are true at once.

The gap between the Muslim you want to be and the one you are this week.

Missed prayers, guilt loops, the quiet fear that struggling means failing spiritually. That gap is workable, and it is not a verdict.

Intrusive thoughts about faith that frighten you.

Doubt and waswas are recognized clinical patterns with real treatment approaches. Having them does not make you a hypocrite.

Being the strong one for everybody.

The family fixer, the dependable sibling, the one people call. Nobody asks how the strong one is doing. This room does.

Anxiety or low mood that dua alone has not lifted.

Seeking treatment is not a lack of tawakkul. The Prophet ﷺ told us to tie the camel first. Therapy is tying the camel.

Old wounds tangled up with religion.

When the people who hurt you used faith to do it, healing needs someone who can separate Islam from how it was weaponized.

Life decisions with the whole community watching.

Marriage, divorce, career, boundaries with parents. You can honour your values and still need a confidential thinking partner.

The signature difference

No glossary required.

Words you would normally have to explain to a therapist before you could even begin. Here, the work starts where you actually are.

صبر

Sabr · patience

Patience, yes. Suppression, no. We untangle the two, because they have been confused for you long enough.

توكل

Tawakkul · trust in Allah

Trust was never meant to cancel planning, boundaries, or asking for help. Tie the camel. Then trust.

وسواس

Waswas · intrusive whispers

Obsessive doubt about purity, prayer, or belief is a known clinical pattern. It responds to treatment, not to more rumination.

قدر

Qadr · divine decree

Accepting qadr and grieving what happened are not opposites. You are allowed both, in the same heart, at the same time.

حياء

Haya · modesty

Some things are hard to say out loud. We move at the pace your haya allows, and nothing is forced into the open.

أمانة

Amanah · sacred trust

What you share in session is held as an amanah, protected by professional confidentiality and by something older than it.

Your faith was never the obstacle. Carrying everything alone might be.

Where the lines are

Faith-integrated. Clinically grounded. Genuinely private.

A therapist, not a sheikh

No rulings, no judgment of where your practice is right now. Evidence-based methods, including CBT and EMDR, offered through a lens that respects Islam.

Your deen, your dial

Some clients want Quran and seerah woven through every session. Others want a Muslim therapist who simply gets it. You set how much faith enters the work.

Nowhere near the masjid

Sessions are fully virtual, so you will not cross paths with your therapist at jummah or a community event. What is said in session stays in session.

How it works

Three steps, and the first one is free.

A free 15-minute consultation

A relaxed video or phone call. You share what is going on, ask anything, and feel out the fit. No pressure, no commitment, no intake forms yet.

Your first full session

We map what brought you here and what you want to be different. You decide the pace and how much faith you want woven into the work.

A steady rhythm

Weekly or biweekly 50-minute sessions, online, with evening availability. Practical tools between sessions, and a plan we revisit together.

Ummara Ashfaq, Registered Psychotherapist

Your therapist

السلام عليكم · I'm Ummara.

I am a Muslim Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO #15095) and the founder of Resilient Foundations Counselling Services. I work with Muslims across Ontario who want therapy that does not require them to translate their world first.

My practice is fully virtual and confidential. I offer sessions in English and Urdu, and I bring training in EMDR for trauma and the Gottman Method for couples into faith-integrated individual work.

Whether your iman feels strong, shaky, or somewhere complicated, you are welcome exactly as you arrive.

CRPO #15095EMDR-trainedGottman Method Levels 1 & 2English · Urdu

Fees & coverage

Transparent fees. Direct billing handled for you.

$175 / 50-minute session

Individual faith-based counselling. Couples sessions are $220. Many extended health plans cover Registered Psychotherapists.

  • Direct billing with GreenShield and Sun Life, so you are not left chasing paperwork.
  • Receipts provided for all other insurers for easy reimbursement.
  • Evening appointments available for work and family schedules.
  • Secure video sessions from anywhere in Ontario.

Before you book

What people ask first

Is therapy compatible with Islam?
Yes. Seeking knowledge and treatment is encouraged in our tradition, and therapy works alongside, never instead of, your spiritual life. Many clients find that doing the psychological work actually deepens their connection to faith, because pain stops standing in the way of it.
What if my iman feels weak or complicated right now?
Then you are in good company. Doubt, dryness, and religious hurt are some of the most common reasons Muslims seek counselling. There is no piety bar to clear before booking, and you will not be judged for where you are.
Will anyone in my community find out?
No. Sessions are confidential under CRPO professional standards, and because everything is virtual, there is no waiting room, no parking lot, and no chance of bumping into someone you know. The limits to confidentiality required by law are explained clearly before we begin.
Do you only work with Muslims?
No. This page describes faith-based Islamic counselling, but I welcome clients of any background or belief, including those questioning faith altogether. The approach always follows your values, not mine.
Can sessions be in Urdu?
Yes. Sessions run in English, Urdu, or a natural mix of both. Hindi is also available. You are welcome to switch languages mid-sentence, the way you actually speak.
Do you see clients outside Ontario?
My practice is online across Ontario, and virtual sessions are available to clients in most other Canadian provinces. Mention where you live in the free consultation and we will confirm availability for your province.

The first conversation is free

You have made harder duas than this. Booking a call is the easy part.

Fifteen minutes, no commitment, no intake forms. Just a conversation to see whether this is the right room for you.

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